I think your family's concern is understandable, but it's probably a mix of real risks and an outdated mental picture.
Many people still associate Colombia primarily with the drug-cartel violence of the 1980s and 1990s. The country has changed dramatically since then, and tourism has grown substantially. Cities like Medellín, Cartagena, and Bogotá receive millions of visitors. At the same time, Colombia still has genuine security challenges that aren't just historical.
The important nuance is that "Is Colombia safe?" is too broad a question. Safety varies a lot depending on where you go.
For example:
- Popular tourist areas in cities are generally well-traveled by international visitors.
- Some rural departments and border regions have active armed groups and are places that many governments advise against visiting.
- The area near the border with Venezuela is widely considered much higher risk than the main tourist circuit.
The risks most tourists are actually more likely to encounter are things like:
- Phone snatching or pickpocketing.
- Armed robbery if valuables are displayed.
- Dating-app scams and "drugging" robberies, which have become a well-documented concern in some nightlife districts.
That sounds alarming, but it's also different from the image many people have of constant cartel violence. Most visitors who stay in established tourist areas, use reputable transportation, avoid isolated neighborhoods at night, and exercise good situational awareness have uneventful trips.
If you want to reassure your family, it often helps to show them that you've done your homework. Instead of saying, "It's perfectly safe," you could say something like:
"I'm planning to stay in well-known tourist neighborhoods, avoid regions under travel warnings, use rideshare or registered taxis instead of hailing cars on the street, and follow the same precautions experienced travelers recommend."
That tends to be more convincing because it acknowledges the real risks without exaggerating them.
Out of curiosity, where in Colombia are you thinking of going? The advice for a trip to Medellín is quite different from, say, the Pacific coast or a remote jungle region.