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   We're a group of six friends trying to plan a trip together and we can never agree on anything. What destinations work well for groups with different interests?

   For a group of six with different travel styles, the best destinations are ones that offer a "choose your own adventure" during the day and plenty of places to regroup for meals and evenings. That way, nobody has to love every activity.

   Here are some destinations that consistently work well for mixed-interest groups:

   Destination	Great for	Potential drawback
   Lisbon	Food, beaches, history, nightlife, surfing, day trips	Hilly streets
   Barcelona	Architecture, beaches, shopping, nightlife, sports	Busy during peak season
   Vancouver	Hiking, city life, breweries, kayaking, food	Can be expensive
   Tokyo	Shopping, anime, food, culture, nightlife	Long travel for many visitors
   Mexico City	Museums, amazing food, neighborhoods, nightlife	Traffic
   Split	Beaches, islands, history, boat trips	Crowded in summer

   A simple approach that keeps everyone happy is to pick a destination that checks several boxes:

   • Adventure seekers: hiking, water sports, biking, zip-lining
   • Food lovers: local markets, great restaurants, cooking classes
   • Relaxation fans: beaches, spas, cafés, scenic parks
   • Culture enthusiasts: museums, architecture, historical sites
   • Nightlife crowd: bars, live music, clubs
   • Budget-conscious travelers: plenty of free attractions and affordable dining

   Some especially good "compromise" destinations include:

   • Lisbon: One friend can surf, another can explore castles, someone else can spend the day in cafés, and everyone can meet for seafood and sunset viewpoints.
   • Vancouver: Half the group can hike while others visit markets, museums, or breweries.
   • Split: Easy mix of beach days, island hopping, historic streets, and nightlife.
   • Mexico City: Fantastic if your group values food and culture but also wants parks, nightlife, and easy day trips.

   One planning trick that works surprisingly well is the 2–2–2 rule:

   • Pick 2 must-do group activities everyone commits to.
   • Leave 2 half-days completely flexible for smaller groups to split up.
   • Schedule 2 shared dinners or nights out so everyone still spends quality time together.

   This avoids the common problem of trying to keep all six people together every hour of the trip.

   If you tell me:

   • your approximate budget,
   • where you're flying from,
   • how many days you have, and
   • what each of the six people is most interested in,

   I can narrow it down to 3–5 destinations that fit your group especially well.

   

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   Some of us want nightlife, some want nature, a couple just want to relax. Is there anywhere that genuinely has all of that without everyone compromising?

   Yes—but the key is to choose a destination where those experiences are close together, not necessarily in the same neighborhood. That way, people can split up during the day and still meet for dinner or an evening out without spending hours in transit.

   Here are some of the strongest options:

   Madeira

   This is an excellent fit if your group values scenery but doesn't want to give up restaurants or nightlife.

   • Nature: Dramatic hikes, cliffs, waterfalls, whale watching.
   • Relaxation: Oceanfront hotels, natural swimming pools, spas.
   • Nightlife: Bars and live music in Funchal.
   • Group bonus: You can rent a villa, making it easy to regroup after everyone spends the day differently.

   Vancouver

   One of the easiest cities for mixed interests.

   • Nature lovers can hike, bike, kayak, or visit nearby mountains.
   • Relaxation seekers can enjoy beaches, cafés, or waterfront parks.
   • Nightlife fans have neighborhoods full of breweries, cocktail bars, and clubs.
   • The city is compact enough that everyone can meet up without much planning.

   Split

   A particularly good summer destination.

   • Beach days for those who want to unwind.
   • Boat trips and island hopping for adventurers.
   • Historic old town for culture lovers.
   • Lively waterfront bars and clubs after sunset.

   Puerto Vallarta

   A classic "everyone wins" destination.

   • Jungle hikes and snorkeling nearby.
   • Resort pools and beaches for relaxing.
   • Excellent food scene.
   • Active nightlife without requiring everyone to stay out late.

   Queenstown

   If your group is willing to travel farther, it's one of the few places where high-adrenaline activities and laid-back vacations coexist.

   • Some friends can skydive or bungee jump.
   • Others can enjoy wineries, lakeside cafés, or spa days.
   • Good restaurant and bar scene in the evenings.

   One planning idea that often works even better than the destination

   Instead of trying to schedule every activity together, choose one shared home base—such as a villa, apartment, or beach house—and plan around that.

   A sample day might look like:

   • Morning: hikers head to a trail, others spend time at the beach or spa.
   • Afternoon: everyone meets for lunch or by the pool.
   • Evening: the whole group goes out for dinner, followed by drinks, live music, or a relaxed walk depending on everyone's energy.

   That structure lets everyone enjoy what they came for without feeling like they're missing out or holding the group back.

   If I had to narrow it to the three best all-around choices for balancing nightlife, nature, and relaxation, I'd recommend:

   1. Madeira – best for spectacular scenery with a relaxed atmosphere.
   2. Split – best for beaches, boating, and nightlife.
   3. Puerto Vallarta – best for an easy mix of adventure, downtime, and evenings out.

   These destinations tend to minimize the feeling that one part of the group has to sacrifice what they enjoy most.

   

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   We're flying from different cities in the US. What destinations have good flight connections from multiple hubs?

   When people are flying from several different U.S. cities, the best destination isn't always the most exciting one—it's often the one that's easiest for everyone to reach. A destination with lots of nonstop or one-stop options can save hours of travel and make coordinating arrivals much easier.

   Here are some of the strongest choices:

   Destination	Why it's easy to reach
   Cancún	One of the best-connected leisure destinations from U.S. hubs, with frequent nonstop flights from many East Coast, Midwest, South, and some West Coast cities.
   San Juan	Strong service from many major U.S. airports, no passport required for U.S. citizens, and a mix of beaches, nightlife, and rainforest access.
   Vancouver	Well connected to major U.S. hubs and offers city life plus easy access to nature.
   Lisbon	Excellent if most travelers are coming from large hubs like New York City, Boston, Chicago, or Washington. Many others can connect through those gateways.
   Mexico City	Extensive air service from across the U.S. plus great food, culture, and nearby nature.
   Denver	A major airline hub that's easy to reach from almost anywhere in the U.S., with mountains, breweries, and nightlife nearby.

   A few tips can make planning much smoother:

   • Choose a destination served by multiple airlines, not just one carrier. That gives everyone more flexibility and often better fares.
   • Aim for a place where most people can arrive within 30–90 minutes of each other, making airport pickups and the first evening much easier.
   • If possible, pick lodging that's within about 30–45 minutes of the airport, especially for a short trip.

   If your group is spread across different regions of the U.S., these destinations tend to strike the best balance between accessibility and things to do:

   • Cancún for a warm-weather beach vacation.
   • San Juan for beaches, nightlife, and outdoor adventures without international entry requirements for U.S. citizens.
   • Denver if your group prefers mountains and outdoor activities with a lively urban scene.
   • Vancouver for a city-and-nature combination.

   If you can share which six cities everyone is flying from (or even just the nearest major airports), I can suggest destinations that minimize total travel time and identify which ones are likely to offer the most convenient flight options for your specific group.

   

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   How do you actually split costs for a group trip without it turning into a mess? Any tools or approaches that work?

   The biggest thing that keeps group-trip finances from becoming stressful is agreeing on the rules before anyone starts paying for things.

   A system that works well for most groups of six looks like this:

   Expense	Best way to handle it
   Flights	Everyone books and pays for their own.
   Lodging	Split equally if rooms are comparable. If someone gets a much better room, adjust their share.
   Rental car	Split among everyone using it.
   Gas, parking, tolls	Add to the shared expenses.
   Groceries	Split evenly if everyone is eating together.
   Restaurants	Either pay individually or split only among those who attended.
   Optional activities	Only the participants pay.

   For tracking everything, Splitwise is probably the most popular option. You can:

   • Record expenses as they happen.
   • Split costs equally or by custom amounts.
   • Exclude people from specific expenses (for example, if only four people went kayaking).
   • See the minimum number of payments needed to settle up at the end.

   If your group mostly uses mobile payments, you can settle balances afterward with services like Venmo, Cash App, or PayPal.

   A few habits also make a big difference:

   • Assign one person to book shared reservations. This reduces duplicate bookings and makes it easier to track deposits.
   • Log expenses immediately. Waiting until the end of the trip usually means receipts get lost and people forget who paid.
   • Don't split every coffee. Decide on a threshold—say, anything under $10–15 is on whoever buys it. It keeps the accounting manageable.
   • Settle up once, at the end. Rather than sending money back and forth throughout the trip, let the app calculate the final balances.

   For a six-person trip, another approach that works well is to create a shared trip fund. Before the trip, everyone contributes the same amount (for example, $300–500 per person) to cover shared costs like groceries, parking, fuel, and supplies. One or two people manage the fund, and if there's money left over, it's divided evenly at the end. Larger expenses like flights and optional excursions stay separate.

   Finally, agree on one principle before booking anything: shared expenses are shared, optional expenses are optional. If three friends want a fancy tasting menu while the others grab tacos, each group simply pays for its own meal. That avoids the feeling that someone is subsidizing activities they didn't choose.

   

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